Comments on: eHarmony.com not so harmonious… http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/ and other random particles... Fri, 27 Apr 2012 00:00:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Marco http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1663 Marco Thu, 24 Feb 2011 01:51:06 +0000 #comment-1663 Funny I did the questionnaire with 2 different accounts and they still said the same thing. 'We're very sorry, but our matching system cannot predict good matches for you' Personally Maybe I was too agreeable or something. The second one was more reserved and still nothing. It certainly doesn't help when you see this twice. Makes you feel like you're not meant to be with anyone. Still though most of the profile is pretty accurate about yourself though. i guess nice guys do finish last or never find the starting line. Funny I did the questionnaire with 2 different accounts and they still said the same thing.

‘We’re very sorry, but our matching system cannot predict good matches for you’

Personally Maybe I was too agreeable or something. The second one was more reserved and still nothing. It certainly doesn’t help when you see this twice. Makes you feel like you’re not meant to be with anyone. Still though most of the profile is pretty accurate about yourself though. i guess nice guys do finish last or never find the starting line.

]]> By: Nada http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1662 Nada Mon, 21 Feb 2011 15:02:20 +0000 #comment-1662 I think you should thank your lucky stars you were "rejected" by eharmony. Change the word "rejected to "blessed"! I was on eharmony for a few months, met who I thought was the man of my dreams, married him, and 3 and 1/2 weeks later discovered he was living a double life with another woman in Toronto! While I do think there some wonderful people on eharmony, I also know from my own personal experience it is a place for scammers and mentally/emotionally unhealthy people. So, like I said earlier, rejoice you are not on eharmony!! If only I had been given that message!! I think you should thank your lucky stars you were “rejected” by eharmony. Change the word “rejected to “blessed”! I was on eharmony for a few months, met who I thought was the man of my dreams, married him, and 3 and 1/2 weeks later discovered he was living a double life with another woman in Toronto! While I do think there some wonderful people on eharmony, I also know from my own personal experience it is a place for scammers and mentally/emotionally unhealthy people. So, like I said earlier, rejoice you are not on eharmony!! If only I had been given that message!!

]]> By: phil http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1654 phil Sat, 05 Feb 2011 12:28:08 +0000 #comment-1654 eHarmony said the same message to me as well after I spent an age answering all of their questions. i think maybe eHarmony is only with it if you live is US where its maybe got more users. eHarmony UK is rather rubbish to say the least! eHarmony said the same message to me as well after I spent an age answering all of their questions. i think maybe eHarmony is only with it if you live is US where its maybe got more users. eHarmony UK is rather rubbish to say the least!

]]> By: Beth http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1648 Beth Tue, 01 Feb 2011 01:55:38 +0000 #comment-1648 OMG! I got the same message today! I also answered honestly: probably a little depressed and cynical since I recently ended a relationship after almost 4 years. What a relief to find out I'm not the only one. I was thinking my emotionally abusive ex bf was right all along! Phew! OMG! I got the same message today! I also answered honestly: probably a little depressed and cynical since I recently ended a relationship after almost 4 years. What a relief to find out I’m not the only one. I was thinking my emotionally abusive ex bf was right all along! Phew!

]]> By: anon123 http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1642 anon123 Wed, 12 Jan 2011 10:29:44 +0000 #comment-1642 check THIS OUT... http://www.compatiblepartners.net/eHarmony/ kinda hard to be christian and GAY ain't it?? check THIS OUT…

http://www.compatiblepartners.net/eHarmony/

kinda hard to be christian and GAY ain’t it??

]]> By: sarah http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1628 sarah Sat, 01 Jan 2011 12:32:33 +0000 #comment-1628 how do delete the account if you're not matched, i thought it was funny.. but now it wont let me delete the account..? how do delete the account if you’re not matched, i thought it was funny.. but now it wont let me delete the account..?

]]> By: Trevor http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1627 Trevor Sat, 25 Dec 2010 08:36:59 +0000 #comment-1627 By the way, I selected the "Christian" option and I was rejected. It has nothing to do with your religious preference. I think my problem was distance. By the way, I selected the “Christian” option and I was rejected. It has nothing to do with your religious preference. I think my problem was distance.

]]> By: Trevor http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1626 Trevor Sat, 25 Dec 2010 08:35:25 +0000 #comment-1626 I just received this message as well. I did create an account with them last year and I was accepted, but this time not. I figured that I have changed since then so I wanted to do it again. Obviously I didn't change for the better lol. I think that I choose to find someone local, and that was my undoing. If I had chosen to search anywhere in the world then I may have found matches. It's completely retarded that I am not able to go back in and change my choice from local 30 miles or kilometres to anywhere in the world. I just received this message as well. I did create an account with them last year and I was accepted, but this time not. I figured that I have changed since then so I wanted to do it again. Obviously I didn’t change for the better lol.

I think that I choose to find someone local, and that was my undoing. If I had chosen to search anywhere in the world then I may have found matches. It’s completely retarded that I am not able to go back in and change my choice from local 30 miles or kilometres to anywhere in the world.

]]> By: lel5000 http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1574 lel5000 Sun, 30 May 2010 02:49:49 +0000 #comment-1574 Erin is funny. I got rejected by the love scientist too. I did say in my questionnaire that I wasn't very religious... I read above that not being religious or being depressed might get you rejected... Since a 24 year relationship just ended right after mom died, I think my answers might have reflected some depression. I'll try again in 6 months or so and see what comes up. I hope I get matches so at least I can feel it was my recent experiences and not my personality that isn't matchable. I'm pretty up-beat under most circumstances. Anyway, glad to have found this site. It helped lessen the uncertainty eharmony injected with regard to my compatibility with other humans... Erin is funny. I got rejected by the love scientist too. I did say in my questionnaire that I wasn’t very religious… I read above that not being religious or being depressed might get you rejected… Since a 24 year relationship just ended right after mom died, I think my answers might have reflected some depression. I’ll try again in 6 months or so and see what comes up. I hope I get matches so at least I can feel it was my recent experiences and not my personality that isn’t matchable. I’m pretty up-beat under most circumstances. Anyway, glad to have found this site. It helped lessen the uncertainty eharmony injected with regard to my compatibility with other humans…

]]> By: Zee353 http://burntelectrons.org/2005/06/eharmonycom-not-so-harmonious/comment-page-2/#comment-1559 Zee353 Fri, 16 Apr 2010 01:33:47 +0000 #comment-1559 Oh lol as Iam reading this I did say Iam not Christian Iam a free thinker really dont want to belong to any religious organization. Oh lol as Iam reading this I did say Iam not Christian Iam a free thinker really dont want to belong to any religious organization.

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